The B,C,D Cycle

“Blame, complain, defend (owning your personal responsibility).” I learned this saying the other day from my client, VH. No names, but I really would like to share his name since he is an amazing Director and VP and even COO!! (Hit me up if you want to know who he is😊)

On a different scale, how important is it right now, in todays world to really make sure that your B,C,D is no where to be found?? It won’t get you anywhere, it won’t help you when looking to hire or looking for a new career. It will though, bring you down, not get you hired, or hire the wrong person!!

Take a mental check on yourself at least weekly. This goes for both parties, those who are hiring and those who want to get hired! Think about what you can do to move forward and keep it positive at the same time! If you didn’t get the interview, be grateful for having saved the time by knowing it wasn’t the right role for you after all. If you didn’t get the job, it was not the right company for you. If the person did not accept the job offer, they didn’t belong there in the first place.

Stop the blame, complain, and defend. Own it, trust yourself and keep your confidence growing. Stay true to you, always.

Jennifer